Sex games can liven up your sexual experience, turning it literally into sex play! Sometimes the daily grind can wind us down, so that by the time we hit the sack we’re tired and uninspired. So why not spice things up with some kinky sex games?
If your bedtime frolics have become rather stale, then you need a steamy remedy to reignite the lost spark. Playing sexy games can help renew your desire between the sheets!
These sex games add variety to your sexual experience and open new doors of exploration, allowing you and your partner to travel down sensual roads you never knew existed. If at any time you feel the urge to divert from the rules of any sex games to follow a newly opened path of potential pleasure, go ahead. See where the game leads you (as long as it’s a route you both want to go). The point of sex games is that before long, the two of you will wind up writhing between the sheets.
Here are some fun and kinky sex games for couples that will inject playful new energy into your sex life:
Play Truth or Dare, with a sexual slant. For Truth questions, ask sensual, provocative questions, such as, “Where on your body do you like being kissed the most?” or “What sexual fantasy would you most like to fulfill?” Asking these questions in a sexually-charged and playful atmosphere encourages a sense of safety and openness between the two of you about these subjects, in which you can discuss your secret sexual wishes without fear of being mocked or rejected. When your partner chooses Dare, dare them to perform a sexual act that you know you will both get aroused from: you can start small by asking him to do a strip tease, then gradually increase the heat by asking him to lick a certain delectable part of your body.
Play strip poker, or strip hangman, or strip checkers - or strip anything! You can turn any board game, card game or word game into a stripping game. Basically, whenever someone loses a hand (poker), guesses a wrong letter (hangman), or loses a chip (checkers), they have to remove an article of clothing. You can up the ante by requiring that the removal of clothing has to be done in a sexually teasing and provocative way. You can also have a rule that is someone wins a round, they can request the sexual favor of their choice. You can prepare for this game by wearing sexy undergarments, which will be sure to entice!
Role play. Choose a fantasy scenario in which you can each dress up in different roles, such as a schoolgirl, a nurse, a milkmaid, a fireman, a military officer, a doctor. Try to stay in character the entire time. You can also re-enact the most tempting scenes from your favorite porn films.
Get tasty. Buy edible body paints that you can rub on one another. This allows you to get creative with your designs and have a lot of fun! And since they are edible, when you are done admiring your art, you have the pleasure of licking it off one another. You can also use various foods for this, such as chocolate syrup, whipped cream, honey, etc. Be aware that this will get sticky and messy, so protect your sheets!
If you’re new to playing sex games and you need a bit more structure and guidance, there are also plenty of sex board games for couples that you can buy.
Sex games are intended to be fun and playful, so they are most successful when they are undertaken in an open, caring atmosphere. While the main aim of sex games is to inject pleasure and enjoyment into lovemaking, they are not the antidote for any underlying relationship problems. If there are real issues keeping you and your partner from enjoying a healthy sex life, then it’s best to talk things over openly with each other or together with a sex therapist. Only engage in sex games if you both feel you can offer each other a safe haven of love and trust!
Sex games foster a fresh sense of togetherness between you and your partner, reinforcing the special connection that brought you together in the first place. They increase the anticipation and whet your appetite. Most of all, they make it fun to be together! In the end, the most solid relationships are built on a strong sense of togetherness. Sex games can help strengthen that bond.
